Flowers on a first date?

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Better still, bring them in a vase so she doesn't have to scramble and rush and, uh, plunk them into a bucket because her three vases are under the sink and behind 15 cleaning products. Reminder: It's still better to overdress. If this is your first date together and you feel no urge to put in a little extra effort, then I can tell you right now that it won't go anywhere.

Listen, there is nothing at all wrong with just having sex. Roses are hit and miss; some people love them, but they can also come off as cliche or trying too hard.

Something to bring for a romantic date besides flowers?

If you are picking her up at her house.... As to kind, whatever looks fresh, a soft color and softly scented. Go with something larger... Pearlybob was in the dog-house and got me a lovely, small arrangement in a square vase. Maybe have some roses delivered either the morning after the date or, if you're feeling really bold, the day of? Except for carnations which scream cheap and white lilies funeral flowers , any kind of flower would be nice, though. Tulips or gerbera daisies are both safe in the sense that they aren't too unusual or alienating and lovely flowers, without being quite as predictable as roses. Roses are hit and miss; some people love them, but they can also come off as cliche or trying too hard. I think you are on the right track with a casual or quirky small arrangement or single stems. Go with something seasonal and fun. Sunflowers or dahlias are lush and beautiful, and they are in season right now. And I'd say no roses for this early in the relationship, though your and her preferences may vary. Agreed that if it's a situation where she can put them in water right away which it sounds like it is a bouquet is better weirdly, less intense message than 1-3 of a single type of flower. Tulips and Gerber Daisies are both ideal choices -- they're not cheap, prom-y, or funereal, they're bright and cheery and charming. Since you're picking her up, I'd get a full dozen or so. I personally find the One Flower kind of irritatingly twee. And personally, since it's sometimes kind of awkward at the Moment of Pick-up, I actually would LOVE to be given flowers, since in addition to being really a nice gesture, it gives me something to do. I think you sound like an awesome date! Unless you are 100% sure that she is as much about you as you are about her, bringing the full-on bouquet could be taken as a bit much. I had a guy do that to me and it was totally weird carrying the bouquet around and getting that kind of gesture that early in. We didn't have another date. I agree, no roses. Unless you are both very wealthy and from social backgrounds where this is, like, a perfectly ordinary and innocuous thing to do, then no. I would be slightly weirded out by someone who sent flowers i. I think the sentiment is fine, though. Especially in a really eye-catching color. Which is a damn shame, because sweet william are almost a universally perfect flower for this sort of occasion. Part of the fun of being given flowers is having other people notice you've been given flowers - she knows you like her, let her enjoy the feeling of perfect strangers knowing you like her too! On another date or a few dates later you can have something sent to her house, something bigger and more lasting that she can enjoy in her home. Here's my advice on flower bringing: stand far enough back from the door that it is clear you don't need to come in while she gets them into some water. Better still, bring them in a vase so she doesn't have to scramble and rush and, uh, plunk them into a bucket because her three vases are under the sink and behind 15 cleaning products. I also think the idea of sending them for delivery before is ok. But make sure they'll arrive early enough. It would really freak me out to have the flower delivery person show up an hour before my date because I would think that my date was early. And I would not be ready. So I would have a heart attack. If you have her work information, send them to her desk with a not at all lascivious note. Unless she works at a place where getting flowers would be inconvenient or weird. They're a love-it-or-hate-it thing. The smell makes me alternately gag and sneeze. I have to castrate them to keep them in the house, which is not symbolism you want. I love dahlias and they're in season now and come in a variety of shapes and colors. I think they are wasteful. I also think they are sad when they die. They're just not my thing, etc. However, I'd be kind of thrilled if I went on a date and the dude brought a sweet little bouquet of flowers. I don't know why, but romance and grand gestures always top practicality for me. Of course, I would probably tell you the date dude eventually about my feelings about flowers. Just not on that date night. How much do you know about this woman? Take your knowledge of this woman and her personality to the florist and they'll help you out. Just be clear about what you DON'T want i. And definitely get a vase to go! If a fellow brought me one or two flowers, I would think it was sweet and that he was trying to get points in a good way by doing something thoughtful. If it was a big bouquet I would be put off by the money spent and the grand gesturey kind of feel from someone who doesn't even know me yet. So, heads up, a single flower and an arrangement can make totally different impressions. A few gerbera daisies or dahlias would be fun and sweet. You could even potentially bring them in a mason jar like a spaghetti sauce jar, washed, with the label removed if you want to minimize the time involved in putting them away before leaving. Something like , maybe in fall colors. If you have them in a small amount of water already, she won't need to deal with finding a vase when you pick her up. She can just put down the flowers and enjoy them when she gets home later that night. Low-key and no-hassle, but beautiful! Which are not currently in season in most of the US so good luck, and nobody would think less of you for sticking with only a few stems. My personal favorites, though, are , which I feel are low-key and simple, yet romantic, wild and gorgeous. One site I checked says they are in season, but I don't know how commonly available they are. I can usually find them where I am. Ranunculus are gorgeous, but perhaps a little big and heavy. Daisies are nice and sunny, and sweet pea which I think is out of season is another good unpretentious flower. I am a personal fan of Dahlias, but with that you'd probably need only one! Because some flowers, lilies especially, are extremely poisonous to cats. If someone brought me a bouquet, I'd have to stash it in a cupboard where my curious, chews-on-everything cat couldn't get to it, and unless I could find a way to move it to my office, I'd probably have to just toss it when the fellow wasn't looking. If she has cats, do a little research on non-toxic flowers. Or you could do what a sweet guy I'm dating did: on our first date, he brought me a nice cat toy. He has cats himself, and we'd been gushing about our cats in email, so it was the perfect gesture. Totally melted my heart more than flowers would have. I ended up going into my local florist a few hours before the date, and I looked for the brightest flowers in the best condition. The red and some red-yellow dahlias were the winners. I put them on the passenger-side dashboard. I ended up walking her to my car and when I opened the door for her she was surprised and happy and it was a great way to start the date. The rest of the date went VERY well. My date the woman is an awesome person and that of course was what made the night great, but it didn't hurt that the French restaurant we went to happened to have live jazz and great food. If you're in the DC area I highly recommend Bistrot Lepic's upstairs wine bar! Thank you, thank you, everyone.

No matter what she may say, every woman loves to receive flowers. I personally find the One Flower kind of irritatingly jesus. He seemed cute, smart, genuine. The Drive If you're taking a cab, you should open the door for her, give the directions, and pay. If you're going on a date, treat it like an actual date. Is this the general viewpoint. Consider him the piece friend, confidante or muse in your life. For starters, it's probably because he doesn't pick you up and then take you to dinner bringing flowers to the restaurant is a bit awkward and inconvenient. Or done something unforgivable.